I’m Sarah. Witty, social, energetic. I love laughing with my friends, yoga, house music, fashion and going on adventures with my two kick ass little girls. So ya, that reads a little like an online dating profile. Well, it is. Cut me some slack! My 2.5-year-old pissed all over the floor while I was making dinner tonight and I spent the afternoon with my 5-year- old at her grief counselling appointment. Oh ya, and my husband is dead. Forgive me, if I take some shortcuts. Shortcuts and shitty days aside, I’m glad you are here. Whether or not you are widowed. Welcome. I was widowed at the age of 41 in August 2016. My husband passed away unexpectedly at the age of 36, leaving behind myself and our two young daughters, Brooklyn, age 5 and Piper, 2. As my grief journey progressed, I began to find comfort in expressing my raw emotions, openly, honestly and with a slight (cough*alot*cough) amount of humour and fucks. I had alot of feelings, and I spent a good amount of time eating those feelings. I was gaining weight, and rather rapidly at that. I realized I had a choice. Either continue eating my feelings or write. Here I am. I hope you find something of value in my journey. I know I’m finding it invaluable to share my journey. And feedback on my online dating profile is also appreciated. I should add to it….I’m Sarah, a bad ass widow warrior.